k-p-p-d:

ponuri:

if you can’t go through your dashboard without stressing out because you can’t unfollow several people cause youre scared of them, youre under no obligation to keep sucking up to them, just leave, just go lol they can’t do shit. i know its scary but like.. what are they gonna do, call you out? and for what, because they can’t take rejection? whos the weak one here.  find pleasant people. sometimes if youre dashboard is just drama maybe you can just follow aesthetic only blogs. its kind of common sense but people really get scared to be independent on here. its not wrong to have low followers and having decent people on your dash, like its fine, and if someone gives you bad vibes you dont have to deal with it.

One of the biggest tips I can give to y’all would be to remember you have the power and authority to curate your social media spaces to reflect your interests.

You do not owe anyone a like, favorite, comment, reblog, follow, friend, subscribe, etc.

Only you can see your newsfeeds/timelines so only your opinions on what you want to see matter.

That’s it. Social media is a subjective experience centered around you. Remember that and prosper.

—Lily🙏🏽